People Need To Stop Romanticizing Dia De Los Muertos
November 1, 2021
Seeing as though Dia De Los Muertos has become a “joke” in modern society, I think it’s important to remind people that this sacred holiday is not, in fact, a joke.
Dia De Los Muertos is a holiday meant to honor those who are no longer living, not to paint our faces like sugar skulls and joke around about tacos. Yeah, I’m looking at you Knott’s Berry Farm.
This holiday was made as a day of remembrance, and now it feels like every mainstream media outlet is finding a new way to profit from it.
Pop-Tart made churro Pop-Tarts with sugar skulls on them. Halloween costumes of Calaveras are being sold at Spirit Halloween. And probably the thing that makes me the most upset is the contests where individuals paint their faces like sugar skulls.
Those skulls were made as a way to honor our loved ones and to fill them with colors and designs the deceased would like. Dia De Los Muertos is supposed to be the one night a year where our deceased loved ones can come visit us; it’s something near and dear to many Latino’s hearts. We fill the ofrenda with Marigolds and skulls so that when our ancestors visit us they feel welcomed. But now, people are drawing spider webs and stars on themselves and dressing up as sugar skulls when in reality they are offending this tradition.
While some portrayals are respectful (like the Monster High Doll, Skelita Calaveras), others are just distasteful and hurtful to the community that celebrates Dia De Los Muertos. I’m all for celebrating different cultures, as long as it is tasteful and respects the holiday being celebrated rather than making a mockery of it.
Sr. Vicente • Nov 3, 2021 at 6:52 PM
Arely,
Great article. As a member of the Latinx community, and as a teacher on campus, I often wonder how long it will take before we see a full blend between El Día de los Muertos and Halloween. Let’s remember that the Day of the Dead is an example of cultural synchronicity, the blending of Mesoamerican Indigenous and Spanish Catholic beliefs that merged into a very important celebration for Latinos. Well, I suspect that the next episode of synchronicity has started, between the Latino and United Statesian (I know that word doesn’t exist, but in Spanish americanos refers to all the continent and estadounidense is for what people here call American) communities. So, we either let it happen as dictated by a Capitalist economy, or we guide it by proudly teaching the culture and selecting what we are willing to accept from the US culture. For example, I usually think of Día de los Muertos as a 2 day event, but this year I accepted that Oct 31 can also be included as I found myself wearing a Where’s Waldo costume as I was buying my Pan de Muerto and Cempasuchiles for my Ofrenda for the 1st. I agree with you 1,000% (math joke) that face painting is not ideal, but, just like sugar skulls allow Latino kids to be introduced to the holiday as a fun, happy celebration, rather than a scary time, so too can face painting. Face painting for kids might be a good way to teach the children of the US that we should not stop talking about mom or grandpa when they die, but rather, to keep them in the Land of the Remembered when we share the memories of our family members who have left this world, but not our hearts.
One last thing — I did the unthinkable this year— I wore a pair of Calavera sunglasses and a top hat with flores de papel de china. I made a costume for the day because having lost too many people in the last year, and my little one, Lucy ?, I had to find a way to keep the joy in my heart. Pic available on IG:VHSvicente
Sr. Vicente ?
VHS WLGS Spanish Teacher